I have a pernicious habit of not celebrating wins with more than a simple statement of “Good, what’s next”.
I finished the PEI marathon one year unscathed, and unsatisfied ran it again the following weekend. I was unsatisfied with that effort as well, but my Achilles wouldn’t endure a third attempt. I launched a 5-6 year effort to change my direction in life – lost 40kg in the process, became a marathon runner, became fluent in Chinese, and landed a job as a usability “expert” and did the same, said “good”, and picked the next target (China).
That’s fine for me but I often forget that it’s not fine for others.
Tomorrow, my son graduates middle school with grades in the high 90’s, is an accomplished swimmer, loves CrossFit, and is smart and strong as hell.
Tomorrow, my daughter, who with her boundless creativity has influenced my life immeasurably, graduates high school, and is attending UPEI in the fall to study modern languages.
Both of these kids have seen more of the world and accomplished far more than I could have ever dreamed of at their age.
And I am proud.
This week I will take time to celebrate their wins and let them know that what they have done deserves far more joy than I commonly give myself.